The Bigger Picture

People say they only want bad bitches, with BBLs, 12ft weaves, 2 tons of makeup and fake everything else...well in all those bad bitches you want and see, you miss the real Queens. Prioritize.

People say they only want rich muthafuckas, to buy them all that they crave in life, all the bling and higher social status and designer threads...but in all of the bling and riches they want and see, they miss the real Kings. Prioritize.

And these apply, not just to the heterosexual. This ridiculousness goes beyond that. Superficiality permeates in every sexual orientation and gender identity.

That bad bitch, can easily disrespect you, probably wouldn't even feed you nor take care of home, because pretty people don't need to cook or clean, and all she would be is a thirst trap on her IG account with zero loyalty to you. She may keep you around for her entertainment, until she gets bored and hops into her DMs looking for someone else to have on her arm to make up for what she feels you're lacking in.

That rich mofo, can easily utilize his gains to manipulate, distract and abuse you. Because who else can and would do what he can do for you financially? Who else would want someone like you to be their girlfriend/wifey? A man with money loves to throw it around, and use it to earn respect, love and fear, most of the time. And make it so that you'd have no choice but to depend on him to keep up with your materialistic desires.

My point is, it's time to look beyond the surface of someone's offerings and look at the bigger picture of what makes a person worthy of love and partnership. Because those bad bitches and rich muthafuckas can be walking red flags...and you can lose sight of your rationality and moral compass just to keep them happy. It's not worth the maintenance. Opening your mind, your heart and your eyes can truly guarantee you Freedom!